Welcome to my site. A few years ago I began to investigate the concept of living with an undefended heart. I believe this is the root of what the Buddha asks us to do in his teachings and it is now the lens through which I see the world. How do we defend ourselves and how do we free ourselves? This has been a rich journey that continues with ever unfolding subtlety. I look forward to joining with you on this path towards freedom.
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All Classes are Now Virtual
We’ve been online for over four years and all regular classes remain available via Zoom. Thanks for a beautiful community.
Thursdays 7-8:15pm PT
Saturdays 5-6:15pm PT
Monday through Sunday 7-7:30am PT
A Morning Hike
Sunday Nov 17, 2024
8:30am
Place: Fryman Canyon, Studio City
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Healing Heart Retreat
Saturday Nov. 23, 2024
Recovery Dharma Daylong
10-6 – AT Center, Los Angeles
I’ll be giving a talk at 3pm
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Women & Whiteness
Monthly Group: Next Meeting Nov 25
5-6pm PT via Zoom
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New Year’s Eve Intention Setting
Tuesday Dec. 31, 2024
5-7pm PT
Via Zoom
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A Morning of Practice
A Half Day Retreat – Jan 18, 2025
9:30am-12:30pm PT
St. Paul’s Commons – Los Angeles
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A Year to Live
The Next YTL Practice
Starts Spring 2025
Details will be announced in January
Insight Community of the Desert
Teaching Dates
Friday Nov 1, 4:30-5:15pm – Metta via Zoom
Tuesday Nov 5, 6:30-8pm via Zoom
Sunday Nov 24, 10:30am-Noon in Palm Springs
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What is Undefended Dharma?
The dharma can be seen as either the teachings of the Buddha or, more fully, the way it is. I love the phrase, “Right now, it’s like this” which embodies the idea that the dharma is front and center all the time. However, we have spent a lifetime protecting ourselves from reality especially if we think it will hurt us. We don’t want to relive past harms or we want to prevent the possibility of future pain. We live a defended life and unless we take the time to look at our defenses, we will continue to be trapped by our habitual patterns of thinking and acting. As I have investigated and framed my practice around the idea of living with an undefended heart, it implies that the dharma is undefended. We become willing to turn toward whatever our experience is, without preference and with equanimity. This is quite a task and one that can take years (it certainly has in my case and I’m definitely not done yet). I hope you will join me in practicing undefended dharma as we move towards living with an undefended heart.